Ya’ll, he asked me to cut off my locs.
"Take them out," he said, "just for one day - our wedding." I want to see you, my wife, with straight hair. Just once.
And before I even scoffed at the idea of us one day being married, about to ask if this was just an empty promise, I let myself feel his…
lets not play this “game of life”.
I win you lose
Keven and I went out to his cousin Jennifer’s in the middle of the country Texas this past weekend. She’s moving to Louisiana with her boyfriend and so we had a family get together! I had so much fun seeing all of Keven’s cousins that I feel like I haven’t seen in forever. They really make me feel like family whenever I’m with them. We boiled crawfish and tore it up! It was so much fun catching up with them all. Maybe it’s just me but whenever I’m around the OG’s (Keven’s parents, aunts and uncles) I don’t feel as apart of the family even though they’re nice and all, but they just don’t talk to me as much as his cousins do. I guess being the 2nd generation, they’re more open. But man, they love me! And I love them! My new family <3
Thanks anon. I think that’s the approach I’m going to take with it. I know she feels bad about it but I also feel like my mom doesn’t make enough effort with her. She’ll tell me in Laos to tell/ask her something when she can just say it herself and I know it bothers Alexia…
I don’t know if anyone knows this, but Lex moved out earlier in December last year to live on campus at University. She comes and visits a couple of days a week, but for the most part, she isn’t here. Now if you’ve followed us from the beginning, you know Lexi and my mom don’t have the closest relationship and I’ll admit a big part of that is because my mom has been reluctant to accept her. The other day, we were about to leave to go to this Korean cafe to study. Lex never likes to study here because it’s always loud once my parents and little brother get home. So as soon as they got home, she immediately tensed up and wanted to hurry up and get out of there. I know she’s always felt kind of uncomfortable and sort of like my family doesn’t try to get to know her, but I don’t know. I could feel something was wrong. Lex went outside to wait for me to get all of my stuff but while she was out there my mom was asking why she always leaves when she comes home and told me she feels like Lex hates her. It really made me feel bad. So I went outside and told Lex to come back in and what my mom had said. I could see that she felt bad but she also didn’t know what to say to her. All I told her was just to talk to her. It didn’t matter about what. So she came back inside and sat and talked to my mom. My mom had gotten her a really nice new black purse and after that, I could tell Alexia felt bad for leaving when she came home every time lol. I mean, I’ll be the first to admit though that my mom is loud as hell and annoying so I can’t blame her, but I feel like it’s been over a year and they should really start to get to know each other better. Alexia has been watching her cook lately though, so maybe they can bond over that. I feel like my mom is finally trying, but I also feel like Alexia might just feel defeated at this point and I feel bad that I’m not sure what to do to help their relationship progress. It’s almost like they’ve hit a wall. Alexia anyway. Like she just doesn’t know what to do anymore. Any suggestions?
I need that picture of Beyonce Drunk, Slumped in the car with Jay-Z looking out the window like “See, this why I cant take yo ass nowhere”
yassssssslmao Maybe she was just looking out the window
I been drankin, I been drankin